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johnmustang
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posted 12-30-2001 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for johnmustang   Click Here to Email johnmustang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was another sunny day here in Nanaimo today , so I took the 65 fastback for another run. On my way home I stopped to pick up a video, I parked away from everybody as I always do with both the stangs. There was available parking everywhere, when I came out of the video store there was a rusted out piece of sh#t , old datsun 510 parked right next to me on the passenger side of the 65. The puke punk-a$$ whipped open his door , and , smacked the stang. I got out and told the puke-punk what i thought of him and what he did, (those that know me will tell you I am pretty out spoken ). His buddy got out of the passenger side of the 510 and began going off on me. After a few minutes of quacking back and forth , I got in the 65 and took off. I got caught at a red light about a mile or so down the road, the 510 with the puke-punks in it pulled up on the driver side of the 65 and cut in front of me so I could not go. The passenger got out , smacked the side of the 65 and called me out. I got out as per his request , he took a swing , I blocked it and popped him. His butt-buddy came at me , with alot of anger in his eye`s, I just put him in a arm lock and took him to the ground. A lady in the car behind me was on her cell to 911 ( as she told me after ). The police were there pretty quick , told them what happened , it was verified by 5 witnesses. The cop then told me I could get into trouble for taking the puke-punks down , and , if they wanted to press charges he would have to do it , because I used excessive force in protecting my property and myself. I should mention that I am a licensed martial arts instructor for Tai Kwon Do and Judo , but , have not taught since I blew a knee out 8 years ago. So what I want to know is , should I have not said anything from the get-go , or , should I have locked the door at the light and called 911 on my cell as I was told I should have done ? What if it was you ? I am still really pissed off , this ruined what was a great day.

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Fastymz
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posted 12-30-2001 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fastymz   Click Here to Email Fastymz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
John,whats right and whats legal are some times far from the same thing.I'm not a hot head off the bat.I would have said something about them hitting the car.How can you let that go.And if they started to get all hot about it.I would just just drive off.If they cut me off like that.I dont see how you had any choice but to get out deffend yourself and your car.And if he swings 1st you have to deffend yourself there too.Excessive force is so subjective.In my time with RPD I never really got the hole excessive force part.
Today it just dose not pay to go off on people,it's so bad most the time I just walk away.Knowing it's not the man thing to do,but most the time its the right thing.What ever happen to when you could beat people up and get away with it.When self deffence was not a crime.

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80 hybrid
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posted 12-30-2001 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 80 hybrid   Click Here to Email 80 hybrid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think your totally right for what you did. If I had your car that punk would be sucking on the end of my shotgun. Now that's excessive force. What you did is what you were forced to do.
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V8 Thumper
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posted 12-30-2001 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for V8 Thumper   Click Here to Email V8 Thumper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by johnmustang:
[I should mention that I am a licensed martial arts instructor for Tai Kwon Do and Judo ,


If they didn't need an abulance, I'd say they got off easy. Loosers like that don't respect hard working guys like us or our achievements. We dump our heart and soul into these machines, and for some a**hole to have so little regard for others makes me furious. I'm in to position to judge you or your reaction, only to say that, right or wrong, I'd have done the same thing under the circumstances, as I'd imagine many of us would. I am truly sorry it happened at all, and hope the damage to your ride (and your pride) is minor. Keep the faith

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Dave Gibson
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posted 12-30-2001 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Gibson   Click Here to Email Dave Gibson     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dang John. That sucks.

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V8 Thumper
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posted 12-30-2001 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for V8 Thumper   Click Here to Email V8 Thumper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey John:

[QUOTE]Originally posted by 80 hybrid:
If I had your car that punk would be sucking on the end of my shotgun. Now that's excessive force.


Now, if that dosen't lighten up your day...

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johnmustang
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posted 12-30-2001 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for johnmustang   Click Here to Email johnmustang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by V8 Thumper:
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I am truly sorry it happened at all, and hope the damage to your ride (and your pride) is minor. Keep the faith

No major damage to the car , looking back I am glad no damage, or else, I would probably be in jail right now. I guess my pride was probably hurt somewhat , But , to be honest, I just can not stand these kind of puke-punks , I really had to restrain myself from doing some major damage to them. These type of people have no regard for anybody but themselves , but , every now and then , they will run into somebody that won,t back down. I truly hope that the next time it happens to them , the person they do it to has no restraint at all I feel a bit better now , guess I just needed to vent a little.

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kid vishus
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posted 12-31-2001 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kid vishus   Click Here to Email kid vishus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see nothing wrong with what you did. They provocked the altercation, and should consider themselves fortunate that it wasnt someone else with the same training with less self control. thye both might be eating form a straw if that would have been the case.

As for excessive force, I highly doubt that would fly in court. And if you do get in trouble for that part, if it happens a next time, demonstrate just what excessive force is all about .

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posted 12-31-2001 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fordfan   Click Here to Email fordfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
self-defense plain and simple.

I've had a few similar situations that Pissed me off beyond belief , they were mainly "road-rage" cases, that i was the main target in. But I'm a pretty passive person and don't lose control too often.

I sit pretty low in my seat (so I can get my sight down low enough to see the stoplights through the window...... I still have to tilt my head sideways to see them ), so I don't think they see the rest of my 6'6" 300# body, other than the baby face

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Stewart
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posted 12-31-2001 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stewart   Click Here to Email Stewart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are so many unknown facts and elements to this incident that for me, it's difficult to render a fully informed opinion.

With that said, judging by your description of what happened, it seems doubtful any kind of excessive force issues would arise. You would?ve had to hurt one of them seriously in order for that to fly. I'm surprised the cops even brought that up. But then again, like I said, I don't have all the facts to offer a well-informed opinion.

Just remember: You were only defending yourself, you used as much force as necessary to stop them from attacking you, you feared for your safety (e.g. it was two against one, you have a previous knee injury, etc.), you didn't provoke them (e.g. you originally drove away from them), they trapped you with their car and that behavior, that aggressiveness with their car, lead you to believe that even if you stayed in your car, they would do something stupid like try to break the window to get at you.

And if charges are brought, make sure you press charges against them!

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johnmustang
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posted 12-31-2001 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for johnmustang   Click Here to Email johnmustang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stewart:
There are so many unknown facts and elements to this incident that for me, it's difficult to render a fully informed opinion.

[This message has been edited by Stewart (edited 12-31-2001).]


STEWART ,

There really is nothing more to what happened , other than the punk that took a swing at me did so only once, I hit him with an open palm strike on the nose , and , he got pretty bloody (broken ?). He was looked at by the officer , refused a peramedic , and was told to go to the hospital on his own if he wanted to. The guy I put into an arm lock , did not recieve any damage at all , probably just a sore shoulder and elbow. I held him in the lock until the police arrived. These punks were probably anywhere from 18 to 22 years of age , not as big as me but pretty close. Our laws here in British Columbia favor the bad guys 1000 to 1. Our province is full of tree hugging , bleeding hearts. I am sure you ran into the same problem during your tenure in law enforcement. They are allowed to get away with what they did to me and my car , because I smacked one and arm locked the other. Where is the F#%&*^G justice in that. I,ll stop here because I am getting very pissed off again. All I can say is, in time they WILL run into somebody that does not have the self restraint that I have , and , I hope I am there to witness it

JOHN

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Big D
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posted 12-31-2001 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Big D   Click Here to Email Big D     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am with Stewart on this issue... I cannot believe the police took the side of the punks after they pursued you and blocked your car...

How were you to know at that time wether or not someone was calling on the cell phone...

They're lucky you didn't kick their *** in the parking lot...

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posted 12-31-2001 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gearhead   Click Here to Email Gearhead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
John, it sounds like you restrained yourself a lot more than I would have. THEY trapped YOU. You had already removed yourself from the confrontation before it got violent. They were the agressors, plain and simple. All you did was defend yourself and your property. If you had really wanted to hurt them I know that you could have done a lot more than a simple open-palmed hit and an arm lock. I can't see how the law would see it any other way.

The cop was wrong to even suggest that you could have done things differently.

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johnmustang
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posted 12-31-2001 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for johnmustang   Click Here to Email johnmustang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Big D:
I am with Stewart on this issue... I cannot believe the police took the side of the punks after they pursued you and blocked your car...

How were you to know at that time wether or not someone was calling on the cell phone...

They're lucky you didn't kick their *** in the parking lot...

Don


I guess they didn,t want to do the paper work for such a minor problem ( in their eye`s ), I don,t know. I,m glad the lady behind me got on her phone, or who knows where this would have gone. I guess what really burns me is the fact that 5 witnesses verified what happened at the light. There truly is nothing more to what happened, even the puke-punks told the cop the same thing I told them about what happened in the parking lot at the video store. You wonder why people get so mad at our justice system or should I say lack of . I guess next time if it ever happens again, I should tuck my tail between my legs and just drive away , and , let the puke-punks get away with what ever they want yet again. I am so F#*%#*G MAD

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posted 12-31-2001 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MLariviere   Click Here to Email MLariviere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a hothead,either,IMHO {opinion,Steve? } but I do have a line. I respect you for what you are regardless,therefore,you WILL respect me!

The situation would have to present itself to me to make a call. I would've done probably the same thing. They went in with malicious intent. Eye for an eye.

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posted 12-31-2001 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for STANG4ME   Click Here to Email STANG4ME     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
John, you did well. I would have done the same thing if not worse. But I am only a girl. But I still would have tried to kick some punk a**. I think I would have waited until they went into the store, then I would have kicked their door in, or maybe a fender. I always wished I could have caught who door dinged me for that reason.I do not tolerate people mistreating other peoples cars!! I've always sworn up and down if someone ever hits my car, even on accident I will hit them! I'm very passionate about my Mustangs!

Stewart remember when you were rear ended? you punched the door or was it the fender? That I would do also. Sure it's more damage than a door ding. but damage to a Stang is damage either way.

A few years ago, at a car show a guy had a freshly painted 38 ford, you know the cars with the big swoopy fenders? A guy held his little kids hand as he used the fenders as a slide! The kids pants had rivits on the rear pockets that scratched the paint off like a key. The owner lucky seen this and chased the guy down. They had a fight. The owner was having a hard time explaining to this dum a** what work and money was all involved in painting this car. The guy said "it's just an old car". Can you belive that crap? I do belive in the end the guy did end up buying a new paint job. But sheesh people where is your respect?

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This all links in to the purple hair and eyelid piercings. If they can mutilate their own bodies,do you really expect them to respect other people's rights and properties? These people obviously didn't learn respect from their parents. Let's place them in the military! My opinion.

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Well John, I think you did what you had to do, I would have had a freaker in the parking lot and probably got my butt kicked, but it really bothers me that people don't have enough respect to understand what we put into our cars. Some people just don't get it. The same thing at car shows when people rub against the car with their purses and belts. Duh!!!! Almost got in a fight with a woman at a show last year, hehehe. I think any of us would have done the same thing that you did.....

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quote:
Originally posted by MLariviere:
Let's place them in the military! My opinion.

Mike,
What do you think we are dealing with in the military now. We have to walk a real fine line and we can't touch the little darlings. It's a tough job. You have to play dad, mom, physcologist, counselor, etc................. When I joined the Navy, you looked at someone wrong and you got bounced off a wall. Needless to say, I learned real quick to keep my eyes and ears open and my mouth shut.

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posted 12-31-2001 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AKBOSSMAN   Click Here to Email AKBOSSMAN     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MLariviere:
This all links in to the purple hair and eyelid piercings. If they can mutilate their own bodies,do you really expect them to respect other people's rights and properties? These people obviously didn't learn respect from their parents. Let's place them in the military! My opinion.


Amen Brother,
John, sounds like something I'd do but I don't have the Kung-Fu Grip just a Pistol Grip lol. 'John your my Hero!
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John, I feel that you maintained as much restraint as could be expected and used good judgement in your actions.
Unfortunatly due to the terrible law makers we are all electing these days and the way the the police want to cover their asses, what's obviously right is most time wrong.
No offence to our law enforcemnt members, but as of late I have seen cops make some really poor jusdgement calls.
And we wonder why the NRA is a strong as it is?

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posted 12-31-2001 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stewart   Click Here to Email Stewart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by johnmustang:
There really is nothing more to what happened

I didn't mean to imply you left anything out. Maybe I should have qualified my statement.

The unknown facts and elements I was referring to were witness statements (what exactly did they say), how are the laws written in the jurisdiction for which this occurred, a detailed timeline of the incident from the very beginning (from each involved persons standpoint), what specific physical contact happened between you and the other two guys (e.g. you hitting him with an open hand) and the result of any and all contact. Things like, how did the first guy call you out? What specific words were used, etc. Was your arm lock on the second guy accomplished because you chased him, or was it in reaction to him attacking you? And if he also attacked you, how did he attack you?

Please understand, since I wasn't there, I don't have all the info. I'm not asking you to supply that here, just trying to explain what I meant by "unknown facts and elements."

Don't get me wrong John. I think you did a helluva job to show as much restraint as you did. Both guys are very lucky you didn't clean their clocks and in my opinion, they "got off light." It seems to me you conducted yourself very well.

Again, not being there firsthand to review all possible info, I can only give a limited opinion of the event as a whole. But even then, I can tell you with no uncertainty, and based strictly on the info given here, that if it had been me that responded and the incident occurred here, I'd be askin YOU if YOU wanted to press charges.

Stewart

PS - Nancy, it was the drivers side fender I smashed in I'm still ashamed I got so angry I did that. You wimmen, I tell ya... Y'all never forget ANYTHING!

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posted 12-31-2001 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pthornton   Click Here to Email pthornton     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We shoot them here in Texas. You just need a concealed hand gun license.

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If those little boys try that again, you just yell for Ked and KK...They'll be there to just destroy those punks!

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I'm with you, John. Sorry those morons had to ruin your day!

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quote:
Originally posted by Stewart:
I didn't mean to imply you left anything out. Maybe I should have qualified my statement.

The unknown facts and elements I was referring to were witness statements (what exactly did they say), how are the laws written in the jurisdiction for which this occurred, a detailed timeline of the incident from the very beginning (from each involved persons standpoint), what specific physical contact happened between you and the other two guys (e.g. you hitting him with an open hand) and the result of any and all contact. Things like, how did the first guy call you out? What specific words were used, etc. Was your arm lock on the second guy accomplished because you chased him, or was it in reaction to him attacking you? And if he also attacked you, how did he attack you?

Please understand, since I wasn't there, I don't have all the info. I'm not asking you to supply that here, just trying to explain what I meant by "unknown facts and elements."

Don't get me wrong John. I think you did a helluva job to show as much restraint as you did. Both guys are very lucky you didn't clean their clocks and in my opinion, they "got off light." It seems to me you conducted yourself very well.

Again, not being there firsthand to review all possible info, I can only give a limited opinion of the event as a whole. But even then, I can tell you with no uncertainty, and based strictly on the info given here, that if it had been me that responded and the incident occurred here, I'd be askin YOU if YOU wanted to press charges.

Stewart


STEWART ,
I am going to answer your questions here , not because , I thought that you thought I left something out , but , because I think our justice system sucks, the police have their hands tied by the whinning , tree hugging , bleeding hearts that pollute this world only slightly less than those puke-punks that need a severe SH#T KICKIN
As far as physical contact, the guy that got out of the passenger side of the 510, came to my car smacked it with his hand , and , yelled at me to get out or he would sh#t kick the car. I got out as per his request, he swung at me with his right hand, I blocked it with my left arm, gave him an open palm front strike using the heel of my hand , striking him on his nose, it went splatt he went down. The driver of the 510 got out and came at me with a very angry look on his face, it was all red and tense, his arms were at his side and his hands were opening and closing. When he got to me I did not give him a chance to swing ( it really did not look like he was going to , but, after what happened I was not taking any chances )I grabbed his left arm put him in a back wrist lock , straightened out his arm, posted his elbow and shoulder and took him down. when he hit the ground I put my right knee on his neck and held him there and told him to calm down or I would break his arm , he struggled a bit ,. I twisted a bit harder he stopped , and , the police showed up a couple of minutes later.They chased after me when I left the video store parking lot, when I left I thought it was over and done with. I truly believe they were looking for trouble. I spoke with the constable today, who took our statemets. The two puke -punks were 19 and 21 years old. The 21 year old ended up with a broken nose, and , the 19 year old ended up with a partial elbow dislocation. I should also mention that both of these guys were about my size , around the same height 6`3 - 6`4 , but not quite as heavy as me . I,m about 240 - 245 , they were about 210 - 215. Still big enough to do some damage. They came to the station today to press charges, the on duty staff seargant apparently told them that it was not a good idea to do that , because , they could also get into trouble ( NO SH#T ), at this point it seems to be a wash. As far as the witness statements , all I was told was that they pretty much matched what I had told them what happened at the lights, and , the puke-punks pretty much told the same story to the cops as to what happened in the video store parking lot, even going as far as to say they did open their car door into mine. I still feel I am 100% in the right, maybe I won,t hit as hard if it ever happens again, but , at least I didn,t go postal on them.

JOHN

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John,you are right in what you did.And most of us would have done that same thing.I'm mad and I was not even there.But I've had things like this happen to me too.I'm not that big only 5'10" 220 alot guys think I'm a easy target.But keeping a level head and knowing where and what hit helps alot,As you already know.Dont BEAT youself up about it.Wrong and right means nothing to the law.

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John, I'm glad to hear that you are ok, and that the Mustang wasn't hurt too much. I feel that you controlled yourself as much as possible, and that the cop was only blowing smoke. I don't think you should worry about the possibility of them pressing charges, and if they do, I don't think they will get far. You defended yourself, two against one, and only used as much force as was necessary. End of story.

Have a good new year and forget about the punks...

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John,
It sounds like you did every thing right. Even the take down on the second guy is text book. I can't believe they had the nerve to file a complaint knowing that they were in the wrong from the get go and that you could also file a complaint.
I would have done the same thing if I were in your shoes. You never know what people are going to do today. Take care and don't worry about the fools.

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WTF?? Are the laws that basakwards up there? Good golly miss molly I can't believe the cops didn't "following up" with the little attention getters you gave the punks by telling them they'd be lucky if YOU decided YOU didn't want to press charges against them!!

An open palmed strike is always looked at as a more "defensive response" (read: less aggresive) as opposed to a fist.

(shaking head) I'm at a loss, John. I'm sorry you received this response. It should have been a helluva lot different.

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I think the only way you could have responded with less force then you did would have been to get out of your car walk with them to a convenient spot for them to kick the crap out of you, while leaving your hands at your sides to make it easy for them!

I think you did one helluva job just using the force needed to keep yourself from injury, The fact that these cops just let these clowns walk away is ludicrous, what they did was called Road Rage, and then escalated to Assault
Why is it that they were not charged?
Answer=They picked on the wrong guy, they picked on someone that could defend himself, had it been someone like me the cops would have had to charge them, due to the fact that I would have gotten out to defend myself, (but to be honest I cant fight my way out of a wet paper bag) and they would have been calling an ambulance to take me to the hospital.
The law should not change just because the aggressor ended up in worse shape then the defender, the defender did not go out looking for someone to fight but he found someone anyway, wrong place , wrong time.

Why should he be held responsible for their poor lack of judgment in picking a victim ( you were the victim ) they bit off more then they could chew, and for that they get off with nothing

They deserved much more then you gave them, you showed a lot more restraint then most people would have in the same situation!

You did good Jon

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I have a slightly different slant on this story that I think is worth considering. I'm thinking that the cop told you that you could be in trouble in a effort to prevent you from hitting someone in the future. I'm thinking he probably told them that they could be in trouble for what they did too. My guess is that the cop was just trying to difuse both sides and get them to realize that there were non-violent solutions that should be considered in the future should an event like this ever happen again.

That having been said, I also think that the cop knew that you were in the right, and that they were lucky to get off as light as they did. My guess is that the cop applauded you silently, but obviously couldn't do that publicly.

Possible?

For the record, I think you did everything perfectly!

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quote:
Originally posted by GTRocks:
I have a slightly different slant on this story that I think is worth considering. I'm thinking that the cop told you that you could be in trouble in a effort to prevent you from hitting someone in the future. I'm thinking he probably told them that they could be in trouble for what they did too. My guess is that the cop was just trying to difuse both sides and get them to realize that there were non-violent solutions that should be considered in the future should an event like this ever happen again.

That having been said, I also think that the cop knew that you were in the right, and that they were lucky to get off as light as they did. My guess is that the cop applauded you silently, but obviously couldn't do that publicly.

Possible?

For the record, I think you did everything perfectly!


I never looked at it like that , but , you could be right. At this point it is over and done with I guess. I,m still pretty pissed off about the whole thing , but , nothing I can do about it. I am sure that they will get what is coming to them eventualy. There luck will run out , and , when it does , as , I said before , I hope I am there to watch

JOHN

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John, try to let it go. If you let these punks bother you, they won. The sooner you get away from them in mind, the better you'll be.

The Tao says evil is necessary, in order for you to know the good.

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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
John, try to let it go. If you let these punks bother you, they won. The sooner you get away from them in mind, the better you'll be.

The Tao says evil is necessary, in order for you to know the good.


Consider it gone, I will not allow those puke-punks to ruin another day for me

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Good man! It should make you happy that you are you, and they are stuck being themselves!

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Ditto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not a licensed concealed weapon carrier YET, but I will be soon. NO, not so I can shoot people. But I do have a very bad case of INTOLERANCE when it comes to ignorant people like that and some times my mouth over loads my *ss and THEY may have a gun. A man with a gun is a citizen--a man with out is a target (at least in Houston). If every body HAD to carry a gun, people would be a little more friendly.
Before anti-gun people jump on me, I'm not a gun nut! I just believe in the right to protect yourself, your loved ones, and your property. Every gun law makes a criminal's job safer.
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