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Topic: are there any single Grrls?
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fastbigblockford
Journeyman Posts: 88
From: Elizabeth, WV USA
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted 01-30-2005 01:22 PM
   
not trying to hook up, just a honest question...are any of you wonderful ladies single?
please dont bite my head off for asking!?!?!
later
Dan------------------
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kwazykat
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posted 01-30-2005 02:09 PM
some of us live in sin with a lovie-dovie.....  kk
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 01-30-2005 05:05 PM
The good ones are always taken.  ------------------
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fastbigblockford
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posted 01-30-2005 05:17 PM
yeah i kinda figured that they were all taken, but i was holding out hope! it seemed silly to be this close to all these wonderful gals and not ask.
later
Dan
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 01-30-2005 05:24 PM
But think of what you can learn from them, such as where to find a cool grrl, what one wants, how to treat them, etc...Info like that could take a hundred years to gather!  ------------------
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fastbigblockford
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posted 01-30-2005 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
But think of what you can learn from them, what one wants
Id pay good money just to know what one wants!!!
Not that it really matters but the last gf swears up and down i treated her so good and made her happy...and yet she dumped me!
i guess ill never understand.
later
Dan
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 01-30-2005 05:54 PM
I've been in the same position a few times before. Sometimes you can do it all and it's not enough. All that tells you is that the match wasn't right. In cases like this it may not seem like it, but it's better for you also that it didn't work out because sometimes the replacement is 1000% better than the original. That's what happened to me when my first marriage broke up in '83. I was devastated, thought my life wasn't worth living, the whole nine yards. I lived a dark life for a few years, then by accident I met my current wife and I couldn't imagine a more perfect match. Better yet, with my first wife it seemed like I could never do anything right, with my current wife it seems like I can never do anything wrong, and let me tell you, that sure makes life a hell of a lot easier!  Trust me, in time it all works out. ------------------
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capri man
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From: doerun, ga.
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posted 01-30-2005 07:09 PM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
I've been in the same position a few times before. Sometimes you can do it all and it's not enough. All that tells you is that the match wasn't right. In cases like this it may not seem like it, but it's better for you also that it didn't work out because sometimes the replacement is 1000% better than the original. That's what happened to me when my first marriage broke up in '83. I was devastated, thought my life wasn't worth living, the whole nine yards. I lived a dark life for a few years, then by accident I met my current wife and I couldn't imagine a more perfect match. Better yet, with my first wife it seemed like I could never do anything right, with my current wife it seems like I can never do anything wrong, and let me tell you, that sure makes life a hell of a lot easier! Trust me, in time it all works out.
sound exactly like me steve except mine was in 1980!! ------------------
mike r
racing is real
everything else is just a game.
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hwyman3
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posted 01-30-2005 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
I've been in the same position a few times before. Sometimes you can do it all and it's not enough. All that tells you is that the match wasn't right. In cases like this it may not seem like it, but it's better for you also that it didn't work out because sometimes the replacement is 1000% better than the original. That's what happened to me when my first marriage broke up in '83. I was devastated, thought my life wasn't worth living, the whole nine yards. I lived a dark life for a few years, then by accident I met my current wife and I couldn't imagine a more perfect match. Better yet, with my first wife it seemed like I could never do anything right, with my current wife it seems like I can never do anything wrong, and let me tell you, that sure makes life a hell of a lot easier! Trust me, in time it all works out.
Sounds like my situation, only mine was in 2001! ------------------
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Fastback68
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posted 01-31-2005 12:14 AM
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please dont bite my head off for asking!?!?!
I might be wrong, Dan, but my understanding of an M&M Grrrlll is that you should be confident, not fear the worst. To snag a Grrrlll, I believe you should INFORM her that you are interested, while creating the mildest illusion that she has freedom of choice.
How about "Watch out Grrrllls! Here I come! The lucky one wins!"
It may be obvious, but I have never dated a Grrrl
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jsracingbbf
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From: Batesville,MS. , U.S.A.
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posted 01-31-2005 12:23 AM
I find it interesting that very few grrls have commented but several guys have. Just an observation. LOL carry on. No I'm not gonna comment I stay in enough trouble as it is. good luck Fastbigblockford. you're gonna need it! JS
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kwazykat
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From: ...a wonderful place to be.... orange county... NC!!!! M&M member #92 .... a blue-oval GRRL-deluxe.....
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posted 01-31-2005 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by jsracingbbf:
..... very few grrls have commented .....
heh heh heh
'cause it was the weekend and we were all doing GRRL-thangs.... teeheheheheeeee
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
.....Trust me, in time it all works out...
yes it does! the best suggestion i can offer to anyone is to get comfy with yourself... by yourself.... with no outside influences..... do what makes you thrilled and get happy being with yourself..... when you get to the point you are beyond content to ~NOT~ be in a relationship .... is exactly when someone will come along.... i have said this in so many words to ALOT of people .... this is only because ALOT of my friends said the same thing to ME..... and of course.... it took a while to get to that place..... to spend time alone and have your own schedule and your own plans ..... well.... you get the picture!! but then.... something happened exactly when i was not looking for a person in my life ..... boyfrinn innocently arrived ...... very long distance mind you ..... and it took a while for us to understand we were supposed to be together .... but once we realised..... it was a done deal..... so yah.... a person who is truly happy will attract many friends and opportunities to meet new people and .... well... there ya go!! kk
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Ked
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From: Fayetteville, N.C.
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posted 01-31-2005 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
The good ones are always taken.
Yup...but does that mean ya can't be had???
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68F100
Gearhead Posts: 2681
From: Burlington, Iowa
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posted 01-31-2005 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by Ked:
Yup...but does that mean ya can't be had???
Does that mean one could be swept off her feet?
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kwazykat
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posted 01-31-2005 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by 68F100:
Does that mean one could be swept off her feet?
heh heh heh
as long as ya dont sweep her into a dustpan....
teeeheheheheheeheheeee kk
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capri man
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From: doerun, ga.
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posted 01-31-2005 10:14 PM
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Originally posted by Ked:
Yup...but does that mean ya can't be had???
i aint no pushover but i can be had!!
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mike r
racing is real
everything else is just a game.
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Dave Witthoeft
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posted 02-01-2005 05:04 AM
Oh have I been had...
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Ked
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posted 02-01-2005 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by kwazykat:
heh heh heh
as long as ya dont sweep her into a dustpan....
teeeheheheheheeheheeee kk
Ewwwwww.....don't want that!!
Then you'll have a sneezin' grrl!!
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kwazykat
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posted 02-01-2005 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by Ked:
Ewwwwww.....don't want that!!Then you'll have a sneezin' grrl!!
heh heh heh
and THEN we get back to the snoring noises topic in sams place!!!
teeehehehheheheheeehheeeeeeee
kk
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mustangmel46
Journeyman Posts: 38
From: Portsmouth, OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted 02-02-2005 07:27 PM
I want to know what men want. With a guy for 19 years he decides one day doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. Treated him like a king, wasn't enough.Melody
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capri man
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posted 02-02-2005 07:35 PM
melody, i would bet he is in another relationship now and possibly was when he told you that!! you deserve better than him! damn i sound like dear abby!! ------------------
mike r
racing is real
everything else is just a game.
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kwazykat
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posted 02-02-2005 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by mustangmel46:
..... wasn't enough....
dang mel..... that is rough....
hopefully you are getting a new lease on life and moving forward to wonderful things!
kk
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Ked
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posted 02-02-2005 09:12 PM
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Originally posted by mustangmel46:
wasn't enough.Melody
Me either, so I gain a few pounds and it's too much!! LOL!! sorry..... but you know that's true, right. Usually, it won't matter what you do for someone like that. Nothing will ever be enough.... Good for you for moving on. There's someone out there that will appreciate you and accept you just as you are.
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mustangmel46
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posted 02-02-2005 11:20 PM
Your right, he is in another relationship, started 2 months after us. Now I'm out there looking and having fun in the process. Melody
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Fastback68
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From: Sucat, Paranaque, Philippines
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posted 02-02-2005 11:21 PM
Men really are just animals, you know. 10,000 years of evolution has taught us to wear clothes and walk upright, but we still pee on lamp posts.
Thank the Lord I don't have a daughter. No suitor would ever make it past the doormat!
And just for some hard data ... I know cheating is more accepted in some societies than others, but get this - it's the truth. I probably know 200 Philippine guys well enough to open up over a beer. Out of them, probably 100 have children by at least two women and are seeing both women concurrently. 50 are just cheating on their wives. 49 are trying to cheat but not currently succeeding. And 1 - his name is Victor and he has no teeth - has given up and is celibate.
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FrdTuff
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posted 02-02-2005 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by capri man:
melody, i would bet he is in another relationship now and possibly was when he told you that!! you deserve better than him! damn i sound like dear abby!!
I agree capri. you are so much better off with out that @#$^@#^@&@& in your life anyway. Just remember what happened to you will probally happen again; unfortunately. it is pathetic how many people (male or female) are like that. had to keep the latch on to you to he had something more concrete SetUp, talk about insecurity. What a waste of skin he is, move on as best that you can. You will find better people once you leave the memories at the doorstep. [This message has been edited by FrdTuff (edited 02-02-2005).]
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fastbigblockford
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From: Elizabeth, WV USA
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posted 02-03-2005 09:50 AM
hey if any of you grrls are interested...my picture is posted @ sam's place. 21 single and looking!!
later
Dan------------------
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mustangmel46
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posted 02-03-2005 01:28 PM
If I was 20 years younger!!!!!!!! Melody
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 02-03-2005 03:52 PM
Hey, it's the latest fad you know, women dating younger men. ------------------
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mustangmel46
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posted 02-03-2005 04:03 PM
Yeah, but I would at least like them to be older than my son, he is 31!!!!!!!!!Melody
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 02-03-2005 04:10 PM
That could get complicated. ------------------
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mustangmel46
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posted 02-03-2005 05:06 PM
Yeah!!! Already raised one don't want to raise another lolMelody
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fastbigblockford
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From: Elizabeth, WV USA
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posted 02-03-2005 05:41 PM
hey, im sorta raised, even housebroken! lol
no takers huh...story of my life...
later
Dan
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 02-03-2005 05:44 PM
It's like fishing, buddy, just keep casting... ------------------
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fastbigblockford
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posted 02-06-2005 04:01 PM
Well ya know Steve...I do try to keep my pole in the water if you know what i mean ...sorry, had to say it.
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Dave Witthoeft
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posted 02-06-2005 04:26 PM
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Originally posted by Ked:
Me either, so I gain a few pounds and it's too much!!
Your not fat unless you can pinch an inch...On your forehead. LOL..and NOBODYS that fat..
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66GTA
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posted 02-07-2005 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
It's like fishing, buddy, just keep casting...
Maybe try some different bait also??? LOL I'm lovin this thread........... ------------------
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kwazykat
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posted 02-07-2005 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by fastbigblockford:
...I do try to keep my pole in the water....
heh heh heh
oh..... mercy!!! kk
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fastbigblockford
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From: Elizabeth, WV USA
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posted 02-08-2005 09:28 AM
hey all,
still single, still looking. surely there is some single grrl out there that could use someone to talk to. if anyone is looking or knows someone that is feel free to give me a holler.
later,
Dan
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Fastback68
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posted 02-08-2005 10:41 AM
This may be the wrong place to go fishing  If I'm not mistaken, there are only five Grrrls here and they're all related and all hitched. Green Eyed Gal and ... dang, what was her name? The one that went to war with KK? Anyhoo, they've moved on.
I confess, I had the hots for Green Eyed Gal. Reminds me of a chipmunk. Check her out in the Mug Shots. Drop her a line!
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kwazykat
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posted 02-08-2005 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by Fastback68:
...war with KK...
geeesh simon, a one-sided assault does not qualify as a "war with" anyone .... let it go bud ...... we are MUCH better than that here... thank you!
kk
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fastbigblockford
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posted 02-08-2005 02:06 PM
ive not seen any grrls in the mugshots that werent absolutely beautiful, so i reckon i have my reasons for asking here...beautiful women that love cars, what else could a guy ask for??
later
Dan------------------
1973 Mustang Coupe
Country DJ's knows that I'm an outlaw.
They'd never come to see me in this dive.
Where bikers stare at cowboys who are laughen' at the hippies.
Who are prayen' they'll get out of her alive.
~David Allen Coe
work in progress
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Fastback68
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posted 02-08-2005 07:13 PM
Oh KK, I Iet EVERYTHING go, always I think we have a sensitivity issue here. Contrary to popular belief over here in the Grrls room, I never intended ... or intend now ... to stir up trouble. I just simply chat, but apparently have a knack for saying the wrong things. Sigh.
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TomP
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posted 02-11-2005 12:01 AM
Dan
My version of this is a bit different. Try as you might sometimes there just is no truth to the "She'll come along" bit... unless they are talking about a cute nurse in the seniors care home.
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whiteknight289
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posted 02-11-2005 12:22 AM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
Hey, it's the latest fad you know, women dating younger men.
I jumped on that bandwagon in '85, this year is our 20th anniversary! Scott
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Ked
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posted 02-13-2005 09:50 AM
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Originally posted by SteveLaRiviere:
Hey, it's the latest fad you know, women dating younger men.
Let's see....men reach their peak at 18 and women at 40...
Fad???? Nah....I think it's a fact of life!!
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kwazykat
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posted 02-13-2005 10:21 AM
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Originally posted by Ked:
....I think it's a fact of life!!
heh heh heh
dont look at me..... i dunno nuthin'!!!
kk
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SteveLaRiviere
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posted 02-15-2005 09:08 AM
Dan, when I was single and wanted to meet women I used to go to singles dances. Grab a local paper and you'll find something like that going on. Up here the group is/was called 'The Singles Network.' Most guys don't like to dance, I sure didn't, but most of the time you don't even need to. Because of this though, the ratio was great, usually about 3-4 women to each guy. If you are shy, don't worry. Just sit at a table and nurse a drink and they will come to you and ask you to dance. You then either dance or ask to buy them a drink. Most of the women are mid-thirties or older, but that's a good thing. I should have mentioned this yesterday, because I bet there were lots of good events like that on Valentine's night. At least you'll avoid the holiday corn now. Keep your confidence up, remember that women want to be with men as much if not more than men want to be with women. ------------------
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fastbigblockford
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posted 02-15-2005 11:03 AM
oh btw,
I am dating again, actually back with the girl i left to be with Heather. Things are ok so far, but she isnt the most trusting...coarse who could blame her, after all i did cheat on her the last time. Im out to prove that old once a cheater always a cheater thing wrong.
hope everyone's Valentine's day was cool.
later
Dan
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