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Topic: A little help needed from the Grrls...
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Southpaw
Gearhead Posts: 339
From: Aurora, CO USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 06-24-2002 01:33 PM
   
Hey ladies...I need some help on a female level here. I'm trying to end my 2 year relationship, and without giving too much information I've been lied to too many times. But here's the problem...This jerk is making himself as unavalibe as possible. He ha a few things of mine and also owes me some $$. So here are my 2 choices...
1. 50/50 chance I maybe able to catch him at home tonight.
2. Go up tohis work tomorrow night What do you think would be best?
Thanks for your help!!!!!
Andria
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Ken&Shell
Gearhead Posts: 486
From: Mocksville, NC
Registered: May 2000
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posted 06-24-2002 04:11 PM
I'd try the home first.. Guys gets wierd as crap when you "air their dirty laundry" out in public.. Especially at work..If he blows you off for several days and there's no alternative, then go for work.. Just my .02
Shell
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Ponygirl67
Gearhead Posts: 857
From: Vancouver Island, Canada
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted 06-24-2002 07:37 PM
Yep......I totally agree with Shell, try not to drag it to his work, but maybe mention it might go there if you can't hook up with him at home in the next couple of days, that should be enough motivation for him to meet you at home...------------------
Speed kills...drive a Chevy!!!
The Mustang Stable
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70 Pony
Gearhead Posts: 1780
From: Glenmoore, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2000
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posted 06-25-2002 12:00 AM
SHELL...hit it on the head..try nice..nice first....then play hard ball....but no matter what,,,never give up...------------------
EDDIE D
Resto Mod '70 Sport Roof
Arrest Me Red
'02 GT, Torch Red
"If I knew I would have lived this long, I would have taken better care of myself !"
"U.S. Marines; First to go. Last to know !"
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ccode67
Gearhead Posts: 1144
From: douglasville,ga,usa
Registered: Mar 2001
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posted 06-25-2002 07:30 AM
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Originally posted by 70 Pony:
SHELL...hit it on the head..try nice..nice first....then play hard ball....but no matter what,,,never give up...
When you play hardball, use the bat, that will get his attention.  Also, never ever loan money to a boyfriend, I've seen many guys borrow with NO intention of repaying, most of them get away with it too. 
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Stuart MCA #48902
M&M #1091
67 stang 5 speed, 351W,
Edelbrock Performer RPM package
Currie 9 Inch
91 f-150 xlt
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Southpaw
Gearhead Posts: 339
From: Aurora, CO USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 06-25-2002 12:20 PM
Well, I tried Nice, No luck. So I think I will call him tonight and let him know what I need and expect and I will give him until Saturday to either drop it off to me or I will stop up at the shop! The odd thing is I got the $$ he borrow back, but he has not paid for his cell phone. SO in nice terms I just want the $$ to pay the bill, turn the phone off and the phone back! I've already paid the $$ out, so it's just going back into the Sinclair paint fund! Andria Just one thought though...Why does this have to be this tough...You Messed up, you know you did, so be a man and step up to the plate!
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Ken&Shell
Gearhead Posts: 486
From: Mocksville, NC
Registered: May 2000
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posted 06-25-2002 01:23 PM
Originally posted by Southpaw:
Well, I tried Nice, No luck. ![/QUOTE]I really didn't think nice would work.. rarely does, but you have to try it just for that 2% of men who are adults.
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Just one thought though...Why does this have to be this tough...You Messed up, you know you did, so be a man and step up to the plate
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That three letter word said it all, man.. out of 95% ,Half of them are delusional.. (you know the ones who are married who think they're not)
The other half hadn't growed up yet. You just have to keep looking for that 5% who has it together.. (and some one them are already taken) Shell
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SteveLaRiviere
Administrator Posts: 26688
From: Saco, Maine
Registered: May 99
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posted 06-25-2002 01:39 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Southpaw:
Well, I tried Nice, No luck. So I think I will call him tonight and let him know what I need and expect and I will give him until Saturday to either drop it off to me or I will stop up at the shop! The odd thing is I got the $$ he borrow back, but he has not paid for his cell phone. SO in nice terms I just want the $$ to pay the bill, turn the phone off and the phone back! I've already paid the $$ out, so it's just going back into the Sinclair paint fund! Andria Just one thought though...Why does this have to be this tough...You Messed up, you know you did, so be a man and step up to the plate!
Actually, you messed up. You loaned him money, got him a cell phone. That should have given you a clue. A man doesn't take money from women. If you want a man, get a man. Live and learn. ------------------
'70 Mustang Mach 1, '72 Mustang Sprint, '94 F-150
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Southpaw
Gearhead Posts: 339
From: Aurora, CO USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 06-25-2002 07:20 PM
Thanks for the support Steve!  I know it was my own stupidity! BUT at least I did not marry the guy! Andria [This message has been edited by Southpaw (edited 06-25-2002).]
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Ponygirl67
Gearhead Posts: 857
From: Vancouver Island, Canada
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted 06-25-2002 07:36 PM
Ya no kidding.......or have kids with him......cause man.....then you deal for the rest of time........... ------------------
'67 Prowler Purple Mustang Coupe
The Mustang Stable
Vancouver Island Mustang Assosiation WHAT IF THE HOKEY POKEY IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT?
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Ked
Moderator Posts: 7499
From: Hot Hills o' Sand, N.C.
Registered: Jul 99
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posted 06-25-2002 07:46 PM
I dunno, Andria.....is it worth just cuttin' your losses for? Gettin' the stuff back might be the greater hassel....just my opinion and not knowing the expense involved.....
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70 Pony
Gearhead Posts: 1780
From: Glenmoore, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2000
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posted 06-26-2002 07:11 PM
Too bad you live in Colorado...here in Philly when "NICE" doesn't work we send Vito and Nunzio to the door...
You'd be surprised how you would end up with a new phone...a bonus on top of your money he owes..and a chance to call the hospital to check his condition..
AND HEY...DON'T FEEL STUPID...YOU'RE NOT..
You made the mistake of thinking everyone has some scruples and thinks like you do..
We've all done it...chalk it up as a life learning experience...without staying bitter at anyone else you meet....
Good Luck...we're not all that bad !!!!
I lent a girl 2 grand once...yeah..2 grand....took me two years (interest Free) to give her a deal "She couldn't refuse">>
And got the money in one day....------------------
EDDIE D
Resto Mod '70 Sport Roof
Arrest Me Red
'02 GT, Torch Red
"If I knew I would have lived this long, I would have taken better care of myself !"
"U.S. Marines; First to go. Last to know !"
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SteveLaRiviere
Administrator Posts: 26688
From: Saco, Maine
Registered: May 99
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posted 06-26-2002 07:25 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Southpaw:
Thanks for the support Steve! I know it was my own stupidity! BUT at least I did not marry the guy! Andria
Exactly! Seriously, there are a lot of weenie guys out there. The next time a guy wants to borrow money, RUN! ------------------
'70 Mustang Mach 1, '72 Mustang Sprint, '94 F-150
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Southpaw
Gearhead Posts: 339
From: Aurora, CO USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 06-27-2002 06:59 PM
I think I'll go back to my original dating rules...
1. No more tattoos then I have
2. Hair must be shorter then mine
3. No car, no date
4. Must have A place of his own
and the most important
5. DO NOT Touch, make fun of, or think about driving my car! No Vito and Nunzio, but I do have Russ, Dave, Jimmy, Frank, etc!!! 
Andria
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Ken&Shell
Gearhead Posts: 486
From: Mocksville, NC
Registered: May 2000
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posted 07-01-2002 10:04 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Southpaw:
I think I'll go back to my original dating rules...
1. No more tattoos then I have
2. Hair must be shorter then mine
3. No car, no date
4. Must have A place of his own
and the most important
5. DO NOT Touch, make fun of, or think about driving my car! Andria
I love those rules.. Number 3 & 4 are a MUST
Shell
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ccode67
Gearhead Posts: 1144
From: douglasville,ga,usa
Registered: Mar 2001
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posted 07-01-2002 10:10 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Southpaw:
I think I'll go back to my original dating rules...
1. No more tattoos then I have
2. Hair must be shorter then mine
3. No car, no date
4. Must have A place of his own
and the most important
5. DO NOT Touch, make fun of, or think about driving my car! No Vito and Nunzio, but I do have Russ, Dave, Jimmy, Frank, etc!!!
Andria
Andria, I fit all those rules, but you may want to add one that will disqualify me,
No married men. If you don't want to add that one my phone number is.......... 
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Stuart MCA #48902
M&M #1091
67 stang 5 speed, 351W,
Edelbrock Performer RPM package
Currie 9 Inch
91 f-150 xlt
98 explorer xlt sohc v-6
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Southpaw
Gearhead Posts: 339
From: Aurora, CO USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 07-09-2002 11:53 AM
Well after weeks of dealing with this cr*p...I got the cell back and 1/2 the $$. I sat down with the the bill and guess what...The jerk's been cheating on me for about a month and his little creature was using the phone! She also go him back into his criminal past, so GOOD RIDDENS!!!!!!! So, Sinclair is parked somewhere safe for a few weeks, and me, I'm hanging in there and greatful it's over and done with! Thanks for all the support! You Guys and Gals are great! Help me keep what little bit of sainity I had left!!! Andria
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Ken&Shell
Gearhead Posts: 486
From: Mocksville, NC
Registered: May 2000
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posted 07-09-2002 01:55 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Southpaw:
Thanks for all the support! You Guys and Gals are great! Help me keep what little bit of sainity I had left!!! Andria
NO Problem. I had been wondering how it had all turned out... Send me a little sanity if you can, I am about to loose it over here... Shell [This message has been edited by Ken&Shell (edited 07-09-2002).]
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TomP
Gearhead Posts: 4429
From: Delta BC Canada
Registered: Dec 99
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posted 07-09-2002 11:12 PM
I think giving the "bums rush" to bums like that is easy. Do you want somebody to screen these guys for ya? Tom
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