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70 Pony
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posted 05-28-2002 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always hear women say they love men who are "Sensitive".....yet since I've been a kid, it seems like the "Bad Boys", who stand their grrllls up, never show emotions etc...always made out the best....
Now I've led a pretty exciting "Manly" life, but consider myself "Sensitive" and am beginning to think, it leaves a guy pretty vulnerable, and may even get boring to the opposite sex....
Now I don't mean "WUSSY" sensitivity...I mean, not being afraid to open up, show your emotions etc....
But those guys that seem "Aloof" to everything must seem exciting (I guess).
What's the story here ??
Come on...be honest....

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Ken&Shell
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posted 05-28-2002 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ken&Shell   Click Here to Email Ken&Shell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will respond to this Eddie.. Most grrls do tend to go for the Bad boys.. It's like the forbidden fruit. But as we get a little more experience, we realize they are not the ones we should be going after... Some of us take longer to learn this lesson...

Shell

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mellowyellow
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posted 05-28-2002 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mellowyellow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But those "Nice" girls went to heaven"......
The BAD grrlls went everywhere!!!!

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Ponygirl67
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posted 05-28-2002 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ponygirl67   Click Here to Email Ponygirl67     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always went for the bad boys when I was younger....well till I was 32 or so I guess....hehehehe....and could never figure out why it never worked out...DUH!!!! Adam is sensitive and caring but doesn't put up with my crap....I love that in a guy!!!

I think the allure of the aloof bad boy thing is just the fight to see if you can be the one that tames him and he falls madly in love with and changes for.....a total woman thing I think....

reality sets in eventually and you realize he is just a big jerk.....hehehehe. Ok I am gonna shut up now......

You are just perfect the way you are Eddy. Don't change that for anyone!!!
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70 Pony
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posted 05-28-2002 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll never change PonyGirl....I have a side of me that women do try to tame..(honest).
But not to sound corny, I couldn't stand up a GUY I didn't like, let a lone a girl who was expecting to go out.
Plus I treat everyone the same...from the clean up man at Burger King to the CEO of Ford Motor Company...
And I think being aloof is boring....I like passion..(Not just talking about se**ual passion)..I mean passion...fire...being up front..showing the world you're alive...
And one more thing....common courtesy to everyone, from your lover to a total stranger...
As long as you get it back....But if I like you enough to show interest, you're going to know it..and if you show interest back, I'm going to make sure, that what you see is what you get...no BS...no phony macho bad boy stuff...just me.
But yes....I do need a little taming, and have been told so...but it's more of a lifestyle. Not the way I treat people..

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Ked
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posted 05-28-2002 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ked   Click Here to Email Ked     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mellowyellow:
But those "Nice" girls went to heaven"......
The BAD grrlls went everywhere!!!!


~and you think that I'll be bad for just a little while ~

~but I know that I'll be bad for good!!!

ummmmmm, now where the heck is that Jim Stienman CD.....hadn't heard that in forever!! Thanks for reminding me of it, Pete!

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Ked
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posted 05-28-2002 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ked   Click Here to Email Ked     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh, yah....Eddie.....I guess little girls like bad boys....but I suppose the ideal boy for a grrl is a sensitive bad boy.....yah....both of best worlds, right???? O.K., maybe just a little badness when and where it counts!!! Yah....that's it!

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70 Pony
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posted 05-28-2002 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now Ked...PLEASE !!! re read your response....and maybe, just maybe, you'll see why you women drive us nuts !!!!!!!

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EDDIE D
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Southpaw
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posted 05-28-2002 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Southpaw   Click Here to Email Southpaw     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd settle for anything with a pulse and without an attitude right now! Sorry. I'm in the men suck mode again!

Andria

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TomP
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posted 05-29-2002 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TomP   Click Here to Email TomP     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geez Eddie, keep posting! Saves me from having to ask those questions too!

(thinking all girls only like the mean ones until they are 40 or 250lbs)

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jsracingbbf
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posted 05-29-2002 02:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jsracingbbf   Click Here to Email jsracingbbf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SOO let me get this straight Grrrls like guys that CARE but in public act like they don't give a rat's? AND they show up late and apologize with jewlery and some weeds they picked on the side of the road that He thinks are flowers? Not to mention he had to ROB a lil Old lady to buy the Jewlery? Ok that's a sensitive bad boy! HEY I'M Catchin ON HERE! ya think? it's doubtful

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Thud
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posted 05-29-2002 06:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"A woman chooses a man thinking she will change him. A man chooses a woman thinking she will never change. Both are disappointed."

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Ken&Shell
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posted 05-29-2002 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ken&Shell   Click Here to Email Ken&Shell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by 70 Pony:
Plus I treat everyone the same...from the clean up man at Burger King to the CEO of Ford Motor Company...
And I think being aloof is boring....I like passion..(Not just talking about se**ual passion)..I mean passion...fire...being up front..showing the world you're alive...
And one more thing....common courtesy to everyone, from your lover to a total stranger...
As long as you get it back

I believe you are on to something there eddie.. That sounds like what i need to find in a man.

Now what i really hate is the man who convinces you he's the sensitive one..write you poems, sends you cards, leaves messages 'just because i was thinking about you' and then he turns out to be the "Bad boy" jerk who dumps you hard...

RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

Shell

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Southpaw
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posted 05-29-2002 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Southpaw   Click Here to Email Southpaw     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Shell Hit the nail on the head!

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hotstang
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posted 05-29-2002 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hotstang   Click Here to Email hotstang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Thud:
"A woman chooses a man thinking she will change him. A man chooses a woman thinking she will never change. Both are disappointed."



That hit it on the head, women always want change, from what I have seen, from the color or a room to the way you act... Men like things more stable, we do not care about the "details", well other than on our cars

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70 Pony
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posted 05-29-2002 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
TomP, I'm trying my damnedest to use this forum to learn the mysteries of women.....
ANDRIA...hang in there beautiful. I know where you're at, but on the different side of the fence. Does the PULSE have to be a rapid one?
And SHELL.....not to be personal, but isn't the "KEN" part of your name..."The Man in your life?" Or are you still looking...
Anyway: My theory on life:
Women are crazy, but Men are A**holes !!!

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EDDIE D
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Gearhead
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posted 05-29-2002 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gearhead   Click Here to Email Gearhead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Girls were a mystery that couldn't be explained...
And I guess there are some things that are never gonna change..." - Kenney Chesney, "Young"

Ain't it the truth. Sometimes you just have to shrug your shoulders and let it go. Men and women think differently and approach relationships differently, and that will always lead to conflict and confusion between the sexes. I guess the key is to find someone who accepts you for who you are, and do the same for them, and be honest. Also, nothing stays the same forever... things change, people change... how a couple handles that change will determine if the relationship survives or fails.

As for the whole "sensitive" vs. "bad boy" thing... it really depends on the woman. I've known women who can't seem to break away from the bad boys, and others who wouldn't touch a guy with attitude with a 10 foot pole. A bit of bad is "good", but it doesn't take most women long to realize when there is too much bad and not enough good. I'm no angel, but I always treat a lady with respect, kindness and courtesy. In private I'm a big softy, and women seem to really respond to that. Being "bad" doesn't necessarily mean you treat people with disrespect, but mabye just not always follow the "rules".

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mellowyellow
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posted 05-29-2002 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mellowyellow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Thud:
"A woman chooses a man thinking she will change him. A man chooses a woman thinking she will never change. Both are disappointed."


Right on the money!!! meanwhile........LOL!

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fordfan
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posted 06-12-2002 02:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fordfan   Click Here to Email fordfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
err... I'm Neither.... lol

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Moneymaker
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posted 06-12-2002 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moneymaker   Click Here to Email Moneymaker     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sensitive???? Why of course I am.

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SuzyQ
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posted 06-24-2002 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SuzyQ   Click Here to Email SuzyQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like a bad boy who has a sensitive side only his woman knows about, kinda like the one I married.

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70 Pony
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posted 06-24-2002 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SEE,,,WHAT DID I TELL YOU.....READ THAT LAST ONE FROM MY MAIN SQUEEZE SUZYQ...
It is a conspiracy to drive us nuts...they want it all...Bad and Sensitive...
Now If I said I liked one boob big and one boob small...they would think I was nuts....
WOMEN !!!!!!!!!

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Ked
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posted 06-25-2002 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ked   Click Here to Email Ked     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by 70 Pony:
I liked one boob big and one boob small...



GEEEEZZZZ!!! EddieD, ya can't have it all!!!!


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70 Pony
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posted 06-26-2002 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 70 Pony   Click Here to Email 70 Pony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually KED, I've been looking for that girl in the Schwarzenegar movie (SciFi) who had 3 boobs...one right in the middle..
Kinda gives both hands and and lips something to do.....
Geezzz did I just say that !!!
Sorry....

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Ponygirl67
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posted 06-26-2002 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ponygirl67   Click Here to Email Ponygirl67     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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posted 06-26-2002 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SteveLaRiviere   Click Here to Email SteveLaRiviere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by 70 Pony:
Actually KED, I've been looking for that girl in the Schwarzenegar movie (SciFi) who had 3 boobs...one right in the middle..
Kinda gives both hands and and lips something to do.....
Geezzz did I just say that !!!
Sorry....


Remember that Johnny Carson joke:

They discovered a space ship and it contained a female alien pilot. The odd thing is that she looks exactly like an Earth woman, except her boobs are on her back. Looks weird, but they're great for dancing!

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